Tired of dating black women
“When men get to a certain age, they realize that it’s important to meet a life partner that they connect with,” she says.“Looks fade.” Some great-looking people say they’re given a bad rap unfairly.“When I asked him why he loves me, he said that he loves my drive and my passion,” Young says.Rochkind is equally enthusiastic about his decision to give up high-maintenance hotties.When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something executive in private equity, Dan Rochkind had no problem snagging the city’s most beautiful women.“I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper East Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair.“I met some nice people, but realistically I went for the hottest girl you could find.” He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid.
But he’s quick to note that he’s not just a great set of abs — he also plays the violin and speaks seven languages.
“But after a date or two, they’ll have problems hanging out with you and then will ghost.” Last year, she stopped putting looks at the top of her dating criteria on Bumble, instead opting for guys who traveled a lot and were “make the most out of their lives” types.
In August 2016, she met Christopher Argese, a 27-year-old security technician.
In one part, the researchers looked at the top 20 actresses on IMDb and found that they tend to have rocky marriages.
In another, women were asked to judge the attractiveness of 238 men based on their high school yearbook photos from 30 years ago.