Reentering the dating
I feel terrible that neither internal motivation nor the desire to please my partner have been enough, but this suddenly feels like enough.
But hey, I guess if I'm motivated I should just take advantage of that and not ask too many more questions.
I’d recommend taking some time to yourself and going to therapy. Come to terms with any personal issues you have as a result before trying to date again. I've been wanting/needing to lose about 55 pounds for nearly a year now, but nothing has been enough to push me over the edge.In the last few weeks, my partner and I decided our 3 year relationship is going to end at the end of 2019 - we like and love each other but we're not right for each other in the long term/marriage.I want a family and I’m not soured on marriage, just her.I’m almost 30, we were together since 16..should I know?